I am thoroughly being toasted Naija style and I love every bit of it. No, the toasting is not from bobo I can’t get with but a guy I met whom I never would have met if circumstances did not carry me his way. Again, No, I am not getting into anything. I too much of a mess emotionally and what with the palaver with Bobo I can’t get with.
But it is wonderful to get poems without asking for it
It is wonderful to be sang to just because
It is wonderful to send emails back and forth
It is wonderful to send my picture and he just praise me up and down Victoria Island
It is wonderful to talk spiritual and worldly things with him
It is wonderful the way he wants to do devotion with me
It is wonderful the way he disturbs me with phone calls at work just to hear my voice
It is wonderful the way he calls at my lunch breaks and at night just so he wouldn’t interrupt my day
It is wonderful the way he is somehow always up to hear how my flight got delayed in the early mornings
It is wonderful the way he wants to see me everyday
It is wonderful to laugh because the Bobo is just naturally humorous
As usual, my toaster wants to step things up a bit but my mind is made up. I offer only friendship… can you deal? Or can I not have this in a male relationship? Why is it that when people of the opposite sex click and are both single, one party starts thinking about a relationship and some type of commitment? Why can’t we both just enjoy each others company and keep it at that? Or is it this drive to keep something good to ourselves that wants some type of assurance that this person will stay? I know I am being selfish and a little skeptical. I don’t want this phase of this new relationship to end. I want to savor this for months to come. I’m skeptical because I know from experience when you rush from friends to girl/boy friends, you lose something in the middle. Maybe after then, we can talk about a God sanctified relationship
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5 comments:
wow, with all this toasters that are coming to you left and right you better be careful, but i know u are. by the way you need to give all this bobo's names.
But exactly why are you shying away from commitment?
btw, if yu've gat time, peep into my blog, i've gat a lil somethn i need help on
@ Ugo, I wouldn't say I'm shying away from commitment. I'm just cautious about who I commit to.
@ Bff, thanks Babes! You know I always am.
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